We know that it is not always possible that things go along the way we want it. Based on the circumstances, not enough judgment about the subject or very high expectation, we face disappointment on many fronts of the life.
Recently i broke up with my girlfriend, she never gave me any reason and one fine day she told me, we are done with our relation. The person i trust more than anybody else, the person she was everything to me, in fact she was my small world. It was very unfortunate end of the relation and now we don’t even have the talking terms. The reason i gave this example is, things do go wrong without any warning, without any reason or you don’t know if something has been cooking since long time and you become the victim of the game plan.
All these things if you know you could have prevented it from going into disastrous situation or don’t know what would have been the outcome of it but the bottom line is you face this reality and you feel very sad about it.
Most of the times things are beyond your control, even though after the fact you can say “oh, this could have been avoided, or i had a better solution on this….etc” but it is of no use when you already faced the consequences of it.
What i am trying to tell here is, when we don’t get the expected results we get upset. We feel sad.
I would say expectation is the cause of all the sadness we face in our life.
to be continued…..
Roger
