Apply lesson learned to your next problem

We act many times which is not even relevant to the subject. Have you ever thought why? The truth is always berried 10 feet beneath, it is not always true what we see on the surface. So think over it, try to understand the root cause of the problem, how , why and what, these are the basic questions you must ask to yourself. By the way, whatever is your findings, learn from it and always apply the experience on your next problem or help someone to overcome from similar problem. You may see many people with negative approach around you, if he or she is someone close to you, then try to change his/her way of thinking or if you can not change then run away from that crowd. One of my friend was exactly like that, she was very close and i always use to tell her, don’t create that negativity. But I think she was doing it for seeking my attention and try to gain sympathy and more value from me.This was all happening without any cause or may be she knew it very well that, i will pay more attention but after few attempt i come to know that this biggest drama company i ever met. Many times you get dragged into it, just becoz you do care about your friends or colleagues. What i am trying to tell you is, help someone in a best possible way, but don’t get dragged yourself into any kind of negativity. You should know what is your entry point and exit point. We will continue to talk on these subject